This is the blog I searched for on google but didn’t find, so I decided to create it. A vivid, fun, and sensuous documentation of kisses. The experience of meeting someone new, and an hour later (or 15 minutes, or 15 seconds) you’re engaging in the most sensual, intimate, sexy, affectionate, and passionate experience that humans can give one another.
I could write about sex, or beautiful asses, or sharing deep, knowing eye contact with a sexy stranger – all of which I love profoundly and would be worthy topics for a blog – but I love kissing with an inexpressable ardor that I can’t not share. I think it sums up all sensuality and connection and love.
The experience of giving, receiving, and sharing the deepest, most vulnerable, sensual affection is so deeply meaningful to me that I can’t put it into words. These writings are at best just shadows and hints at the absolute radiant profound fervor with which I adore sharing in this way. The utter perfection of meeting someone new, and then after some small talk, really meeting them. Rapture. Magic. Pure life. Adjectives fail to describe it…but I have a lot of fun trying.
The way she moves her soft lips against mine, the way she moves that warm, rapturously supple tongue inside my mouth, is unique in all the world. And in ways that I can’t fully comprehend, she is making the same discoveries about me. I once heard a professional sex worker describe kissing as a love language and that’s perfect. We’re speaking to one another in our deepest love language. Spoken language came after (a few hundred million years after) this language. This language vibrates in every cell in our bodies with a boundless desire, a tender affection, an endless bliss of celebrating life in the most real, unbounded way.
The way things have been for humans since we moved out of the forest and started wearing clothes and moved into cities, is that we have to spend most of our lives pretending that we’re not pulsating with sensuality and love and desire for the radiant humans we see around us. But no amount of pretending can change the fact that its the most potent, intense and radiant force we have flowing through us, our best and most powerful gift to give. We’re all walking around with this ocean of boundless love and rapturous magic inside of us, but we’re so lost in thought and neurotic anxieties and a lifetime of being shamed for what we feel, that we don’t even feel it…or, worse, we feel it and try to escape it because its too intense. But sometimes, standing outside of a bar on a cool night, after talking to each other and looking into each other’s eyes and smiling for an hour or so…we drop all the pretense and do what we really want to do. We stop saying words and start to express what we really feel And then our tongues are wagging together and its sexy and wild and passionate. We just went from acquaintances to lovers. Horny, slutty, joyously naughty and hot. In that moment, we’re magnificent together. We’ve dropped underneath the facade of being “professional”, and behaving, and falling into line, and we’re doing what we all really want to do. What we’re all naturally amazing at doing, underneath the weight of expectations and worry and old stories that tell us we’re not allowed to be ourselves – finding a sexy stranger and getting our tongues inside each other’s mouths and licking, licking, licking.
The Kissing Blog 